5. We want less control. I mean more. I mean …
This one was a split decision when I questioned my friends. Half wanted their men to take charge and rough it up a bit.
“He’s so respectful of me that he’s almost afraid of using any force in the bedroom but what I really want is for him to grab me and take control,” said one of my friends.
I’m obviously not suggesting turning up the roughness to full volume without your woman’s consent but you’d be surprised how many of us enjoy playing a more passive role in the bedroom and want nothing more than for you to run the show. That’s one opinion. The other other half of my friends said they wanted their man to back off a bit and let them take the reins.
“I feel like as a woman I have a lot less control in the real world than a man does and there’s nothing hotter than switching that up and being the one in charge in the bedroom,” another friend said.
So for this one men, please refer to #3 and find out which side of this opinion your lady leans to.
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