7 Things you should NEVER say to a friend who’s going through a breakup

5. “Welp, time to get on Tinder!”

Scrolling through a sea of potential suitors isn’t the best idea for your friend right now. “Dating apps and websites will only delay and distract the grief your friend is experiencing,” says Michael. “If she hasn’t had the time to heal or grow from the experience, she’ll likely wind up in the bed of a stranger crying pitifully during intercourse.” Instead, spend time together doing something fun, or get creative with different ways of making her smile—whether that involves looking through old photos from your awkward teen days or popping on a Will Ferrell flick.Anchorman’s always a good save, too.