We read his texts (or lack of) like they are the effing Rosetta Stone. If we can just crack the code, we will know his deepest thoughts, and intentions. We will be that much closer tofiguring out if he’s THE ONE.
This female art of rumination is what makes us cray-cray when it comes to dating and men. And we must dial it down and learn to recognize the man-clues that they are giving us, from the very first interaction.
Once you know what to look for, you will know when he’s into you and when he’s not. More, importantly you will FEEL it. This is especially true for grown up men. They don’t play games. When they are in, they are in.
So…you want to know if he’s into you? Here are the 4 signs to watch out for:
1. He keeps showing up.
TumblrHe calls, texts, emails, and keeps asking you out. He is on time or he calls if he’s late. He may even try to nail down your second date while you are on your first. All good signs!
Remember though, he has a life (and you want him to, don’t you?). At the beginning, give him a little time between contacts. But once he has you on his “maybe she’s a keeper” radar, he will make it very clear he wants to spend more time with you.
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