Mistakes newlyweds make: Dreaming of “happily ever after” can lead to unrealistic expectations. Unfortunately, dreaming of “happily ever after” as a newlywed can create unrealistic expectations and lots of problems down the road. So much of marriage advice today is too complicated, too pie-in-the-sky, and too out of touch with contemporary marriage.
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Over the past three decades we have researched marriage around the world and discovered the seven deadly mistakes newly married couples often make.
These seven mistakes are not complicated to understand. Yet, newlyweds who make these mistakes at the beginning of their lives together will get off to a rough start:
1. You tally or keep score of wins and losses.
Couples should never ignore bothersome behaviors, but “keeping score” or holding grudges is not okay. There are no winners and losers in a great marriage. You can’t hold grudges and you shouldn’t cast blame when things go wrong.
Don’t be afraid to argue and debate an issue. Just remember to fight fair and learn to argue effectively. It will serve your marriage well down the road.
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