He obviously loves you physically and sexually, and at least somewhat emotionally and personality-wise, but does he really love your heart and soul just as much? Does it matter?
Isn’t physical compatibility the most important thing in a romantic relationship? Won’t the rest of the deeper love stuff just come naturally? Whoa! Slow the horse down.
Yes, you want to be well-matched sexually with your partner because a solid physical connection and matching libidos are important. Yes, you want your man to love your body and be sexually attracted to you.
But… as much as you may fight it, your body will change and your libido might too; you may not want to have sex as frequently as you are having now.
Are you 100 percent certain the man you’re thinking of committing your love to loves the rest of you just as much as your body? Are the two of you compatible in deeper ways?
Does he light up your heart and make it sing (other than sexually or based on surface things)? Does he care about your long-term wants and desires in life? Can you picture yourself old and wrinkly doing crossword puzzles with him by the fire (and do you know that he can picture that, too)?
You can become swayed by the romantic excitement of a relationship without even really thinking about why you are with someone. If you are considering this guy to potentially be the man to spend your life with, then you need to be deep in thought about ALL aspects of the relationship.
How do you know if he is the ONE and not just a temporary fun fling?
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