10 top secret tips from the happiest couples in the world – Make sure you see this now

7. They don’t hold baggage

Let’s face it — we all have it. Some more than others, others less than some. Some have a carry on (this is good) while others tote a 4 or 6 piece set of luggage (not so good).

If you are toting the 4 or 6 piece, I strongly suggest you get some help with your struggles. Each person learns to take care of their own “stuff”. That’s your primary job in life.

You don’t rely on your partner to take care of your issues. You don’t hold your partner hostage to past relationships and don’t bring all the ills of previous relationships to their current relationship.