3. See if you never talk about your personal lives.
If all you do is talk about hooking up or how much you want each other, then your relationship is mostly about sex. Sure, many relationships can start off like that; you’re obsessed with each other, you’re always having sex, you’re missing invitations to have sex, etc — but if it’s been a long time and you haven’t progressed past the sex sex sex always phase, then your relationship may not be much deeper than that.
4. If He’s secretive about his past
If you are the only one disclosing all the details of your past history/ escapades, relationships, etc, and he never shares real details about his past, but always phrases questions to get more information about you, then be careful he is trying to manipulate you.
See how he reacts when you ask him what he’s thinking, feeling, wondering about. If he immediately backs off, then you have a problem.
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