6 Keep your hands to yourself. I know it’s not going to be easy, of course, you’d like to touch her but don’t. This is the first introduction, you don’t need your hands to go anywhere but by your side. If you do touch her, keep your hands in respectable places, however, I suggest to not touch her at all. Let her make the first move that signals the ‘okay’ you’re looking for.
7 Keep the convo balanced. She’s not going to want to go on a date if you keep talking about yourself for the entire conversation. When you’re talking to her, try to keep the conversation balanced. Yes, talk about yourself but also give her time to talk as well. This gives you the chance to listen and see what kind of person she is. Plus, you may find out a couple things about her that will help you when planning the date.
8 Suggest to hang out. Don’t talk about going to your place, it’s not going to work. Well, it can, but it’s usually too forward. Instead, test the waters and see how she reacts. If you talked about the beach, then slip in a sentence like, “I love ___ beach, we have to go, you’ll love it.” Then wait to see how she reacts while changing the topic.
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9 The goodbye. Of course, you want to get her number or social media, that’s the whole reason why you’re talking to her. So, before you leave the place, check back in with her. You can say something like, “My friends and I are gonna go now, it was great talking to you. Let’s hit up that beach this week. What’s your Instagram/phone number/Facebook?”
10 Have no expectations. Listen, you could be talking to her for a solid 30 minutes, thinking that you nailed it. But that doesn’t mean she owes you anything. She doesn’t have to give you her number or go home with you, so, the best thing is to have no expectations when you’re hitting on a girl. That way, you don’t get bummed out.
Follow these tips and you won’t have to worry about coming off as a weird guy because you’ll know how to hit on a girl the right way, without creeping her out.
By NATASHA IVANOVIC, Lovepanky.
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