IT HELPS YOU FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU WANT.
Giving yourself the freedom to date without having sex gives you time to know what you like. Date outside of your normal type, find men you can connect to emotionally and intelligently as opposed to physically, and give them time to spark that fire.
IT GIVES A RELATIONSHIP TIME TO GROW.
Now you’ve found a special man and you’re getting those warm and fuzzy feelings. Be patient here. Rather than having sex, have all-nighters sharing everything from imaginary childhood friends to favorite power rangers. Get to intimately know this person before you share your most intimate self with him.
IT MEANS HE REALLY HAS TO RESPECT YOU.
Yes, the perk of dating you is getting down in the sheets with your hot self, and any man worthy of that should respect waiting until you are ready. We’re not advocating for testing your guy, but if he can’t wait, puts pressure on you, or disrespects your wishes, wave goodbye.
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IT WON’T LEAVE YOU WITH REGRETS.
Choosing to not have sex means you’re staying away from those one-night stands and quick hookup situations. You’re actively avoiding waking up in the morning in an unfamiliar bed wondering what you did the night before. No more walks of shame and sneaking out of the nameless-guy-from-the-bar’s parents’ basement. Phew.
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