Rebecca, a Nigerian lady, took to Twitter to reveal some relationship advice she received from her aunt, who recently divorced her husband.
She stated that the woman divorced her husband after ten years of marriage and advised her on some important things to consider before settling down.
Rebecca quoted her aunt as saying that a woman must first have her own money before settling down.
The second point was for her to ensure that the family she is marrying into actually likes her.
The lady wrote; “My Aunty divorced after 10 years and she had two advices for me
She said;
1) Kiki please don’t marry without your own money.
2) Make sure his family likes you
I can never forget this and I always look out for this.
Once you’re more successful than their son na there wahala de really start. And you’ll be wondering is it not this people that was forming love for me? The shock is crazy in that moment.
You have men who report physically to their people practically every week. Them asking what the wife feeds him with, cloths , run errands for them (his parents are not old or bedridden), even to the extent of how and when he colabo wt his wife etc. And yet, he has a stable Job.”
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