The Uncommitted/Unfaithful. Yes, she is never committed to the relationship which eventually results in unfaithfulness. She brings little or nothing to the table and is quite difficult to please. She threatens to break the relationship at intervals, at the slightest provocation and most of the time, she does. To her, she has got nothing to lose and that’s why she foot drags on taking the relationship to the next level. Due to her lack of commitment, she may find it difficult introducing you to her family and friends despite your constant request neither is she ready at will to meet with yours. Even when she does, she would never want you to come close to them. Most of the conversations she is excited to have with you are basically on ephemeral issues not having anything to do with the seriousness of the relationship.
At times, ladies who have issues of commitment in a relationship do so because they are sexually promiscuous or just keeping you as a second fiddle till the exact kind of guy they really want would show up. This lady would employ some sort of delay tactics and keep you waiting for long before getting her response to your marriage proposal. Her excuses? “I’m still praying and I’m still considering some things”. Hey, she already has her answer the very first time you proposed marriage to her but would just like to drag it just in case a “better” guy comes along.
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