Reason #1 – It’s Not Personal

When she gets married (or into a committed relationship), a woman tends to make the assumption that her relationship will be monogamous and her sex life will demonstrate how much her partner cares about her in particular.  Sex is the ultimate way that a woman makes herself vulnerable to a man – he is typically stronger, and the act of intercourse is one of penetration into a woman’s physical being.  Women often describe sex as emotionally meaningful, about being vulnerable, and about attachment to their partner.

When you were discovered using porn, your partner was suddenly confronted with an ugly reality.  All of her assumptions about what sex means in your relationship are wrong.  For you, sex is not about her in particular.  It’s just about sex and feeling good.

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