Ladies, 10 easy ways to get over that guy you dying to be with, who doesn’t love you

Reword. Instead of thinking something to the effect of, “I wanted this and he didn’t,” which can escalate into an even more frustrated set of thoughts (“That jerk, he led me on!” “He wasted my time!” etc.), try rewording to something more neutral like, “Two things did not match up,” or “Two goals passed each other.”