But here’s the thing… if you’re not giving her orgasms… then sex does her no good! Can you imagine jerking off but you could NEVER orgasm? You’d begin to enjoy it less and less each time. Eventually you’d get so frustrated by the inabiliity to “finish” that it was just easier to avoid it COMPLETELY!
Sooo…
If you can’t give her orgasms why WOULD she want to have sex with you?
The answer:
She won’t.
If your girl is not wanting to have sex with you as much as you want then this is EXACTLY what has happened for her. In the beggining, she may have tolerated sex because she was really into you. Now that you have been together for a long time and sex isn’t satisfying for her it is more fulfilling to get herself off when you’re not around. This leads to only having sex with you on special occasions… or when she feels obligated (like if a guy bought her a fancy dinner or some sort of gift.)
If you recognize any of these signs it’s time to step up your sex game NOW before the sex drought gets even worse.
And when you do, you’ll discover that when you are completely rocking her world in bed, not only is she in a better mood on a day-to-day basis… but SHE’LL start initiating sex with YOU!
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