7. You know, but you’re not listening
Maybe you’ve lost interest in each other and don’t care where he goes, what he does, or even when you’ll see him again. You don’t even miss him when he goes camping for the weekend with his buddies. In fact, you feel relieved. Like you can finally breathe.
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Or maybe you had a bad dream, where you were married and woke up in a cold sweat. I had that happen with a guy I was living with, but I ignored it. Finally, after the third wedding nightmare, I realized I didn’t want to be with this person anymore and moved out.
So if you know deep down that it’s time to move on, why aren’t you leaving? Maybe it’s because you’re so deeply in it, you can’t see your way out. Or you’ve invested so much time in the relationship; it’s hard to let go. Or you’ve spent a lot of time daydreaming about being single but are afraid to take the leap.
You may feel that you’re not ready to face what’s happening or a future without him in it. But that’s fear talking — don’t let it rule your life. If you keep trying to make the best of a losing situation, you’ll eventually lose yourself in the end.
So listen to your instincts. Trust your gut. Stop investing your time and energy into a relationship that’s not working. Admit your relationship is over and start taking care of you. It’s time to break off this relationship and break through to a happier life. Healthy relationships require that we value our needs, wants, and most importantly, ourselves. Your partner should enhance you, not deplete you.
So take this opportunity to step out of this relationship and step into a life you truly desire. I know you can!
–Debra Rodgers @Hedidyouafavor
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