The best kind of humor to woo a girl
As soon as you’re introduced to the girl you like, be warm and friendly. You don’t need to turn on your bad boy charm here. You’re trying to play the nice guy.
For starters, talk about the place, or about the friend who just introduced you. Speak about anything that you believe will create more interesting conversations, as long as both of you are aware of it and keen on talking about it. That’s why speaking about the place or a friend or even a game is a great way to keep the conversation going. A minute into the conversation, talk about a funny incident that happened to you around the same time you met her.
If there’s one thing that can make a girl burst into peals of laughter and like you almost instantly, it’s the kind of humor where you ridicule yourself for doing something stupid or pretend like you lack in something when you really don’t.
Girls always assume a guy would try to dominate a girl as soon as they interact with each other. But when you ridicule yourself with humor, it makes a girl feel like the dominant and powerful person in the conversation. And when she feels like she’s the one in control of the situation, she’d open up to you and even carry the conversation forward with ease. It may make you look weaker at first, but a few clever lines and wit can bring you back into her dating book in no time.
Ridiculing yourself by using a few self deprecating jokes is always a great hit with the ladies. Here’s a great one for a first conversation.
“You know I never really know what to talk to a girl as soon as I’m introduced to one. Almost always I end up sounding like an idiot. Wait a minute… damn, I sound like an idiot right now, don’t I?”
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