5. “That was better than with my ex!”
Remember what we just said about how sex is a lot like dating? It really is. Just like you really shouldn’t talk about your ex for more than a few moments on a first or second date (just give the basic information about how long you two were together and when you broke up and then be done with it), the same goes for sex. In fact, for a safe rule of thumb, don’t mention your ex ever, even if you’re only entertaining a one-night stand.
You may be nursing a broken heart, and truly, that sucks. You may also be listening to that advice that says that “the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.” If you need to, make mental comparisons between your ex and this new dude. Just please, please, please keep them in your head or save them for girls’ night out.
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