10. Trying to Change Him
Yes, your love can make him a better man. However, that doesn’t mean you can change him. Don’t try to make him like wearing suits if he’s a jeans and t-shirt kind of guy. Don’t attempt to force him to get a “real” job if he’s making enough to support himself and is the artsy type. Men are who they are, and when you try to change that, you’re just going to be met with resentment. It’s a great thing when your relationship prompts your guy to try something he’s been afraid to do, or to become more responsible about his future. Just remember that complaining about who he is isn’t going to make him someone else.
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