Guys, 6 ways to know if you are satisfying your woman in bed

Ways to know if you are satisfying your woman in bed - Today, we have another sex-pert in the house, Ms Vicky Osubor and she takes us on another orgasmride. This time, she talks about why some women fake orgasm when in the real world, they have not gotten to that great point every woman long for during sex. More..

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In my over 8 years of dealing with couples on issues of sex, I have come to realise that more than 70% of women fakeorgasm and the funny thing is that their husband’s or lovers are not the wiser.

Some fake it very regularly, that is, every time she has sex, while others only do it sometimes.

In fact, there was a woman I treated and she confessed that she has never experienced orgasm for the 6 years she had been married to her husband but has to put up a fake show every time they make love.

Most women are often afraid to be truthful, or simply don’t know themselves what’s possible. The woman may also feel pressure to perform and prove herself a sexy woman and in such situations, she has to put up an act.

On the other hand, most men don’t realize that the woman needs to first to feel safe, comfortable, intimate, and in touch with her sensuality before she’s ready for genital stimulation. She may be afraid to say that she needs more time.

Another problem is that some men do not even take the time to turn their women on before humping on her and before she is even ready, he is done and rolls off her.

She may be afraid to say that she needs more time. She may be afraid to show her real feelings if they don’t fit what’s supposed to happen in bed. And she may be afraid to hurt her husband’s feelings by telling him that whatever they are doing is not turning her on.

That said, here are some signs that a woman is faking orgasm.

If you want to know if you are being duped, use the following signs that she really is having an orgasm to distinguish the fake from the real big O

1. Retraction of the clitoral head

This is the first sign that a woman is truly getting there because it occurs just before orgasm and provides you with a clitoris-sized hint. The most visible position of the clitoris begins to swell as secretions occur in the inside and the opening of the vagina.

At this point, the head of her clitoris will give a retracted sign and when this happen, know that you are on the right track. This coveted disappearance of the clitoris isn’t only visible if you have the lights on and her face all up in it; it’s something you can feel as well. There will be a tightening of her vagina around your penis and you can feel whether she’s actually close to climaxing. But if this is lacking and she tells you she has reached orgasm, know that she is just faking it..

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2. Increased breathing and heart rate

This is another sure sign that a woman has reached orgasm but in its absence, know that she is duping you. Listen to the sound of her breathing in your ear and when it starts to get heavier, you’ll know you’re onto something.

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The change will occur reasonably swiftly when she is about to orgasm, and will be accompanied by a completely unconscious change in the tension, rhythm and pace of her other body movements.

At this point, she will clutch you with all her might, moaning and groan in a total loss of herself. (Mind you, experienced fakers can also act in the same way). But for a faker, her breathing is the missing link. Her thumping heart will also be a sign that it’s for real; if she isn’t actually excited, her heart rate and bodily manner will be very ordinary.

3. Vaginal muscle spasms

Most men always look out for the vaginal muscle spasm which is the biggest indicator of orgasm because a woman cannot fake or hide this. During orgasm, she will have between 3 and 10 vaginal and cervical contractions, the first few being the strongest. They will grip your penis, and the tightening feeling you experience will be impossible to ignore.

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4. Sudden perspiration

Hot, sweaty sex? Yes, please. Breaking out in a sweat means her body is at a high level of tension and her muscles are working overtime, that is her breathing, heart rate and blood pressure, are all up. So, once you both collapse into a sweaty heap afterward, you’ll know she’s been pleased.

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5. Red lips

I am sure you never thought of this but when a woman is nearing orgasm, her mouth lips will go a little redder because lips swell and redden upon arousal, as will her vaginal lips. While you are penetrating one set of lips, try to feel the swelling in the other set of lips that you’re kissing. Be careful though: kissing will also increase the redness of her lips, so be gentle with pecks so that you can get an accurate reading of her response level.

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6. Dilated pupils

When a woman is having real orgasm, her pupils becomes dilated and become wider, larger, or more open. This is a surefire sign that your woman is reaching her peak. This might be hard to tell in the dark, but if the lights are on, all you have to do is to look into your eyes as she climaxes.

Chances are that her eyes may be closed at such moments but if they are open, you stand a better chance of knowing if her claims of orgasm are real or fake. No one can fake that.

Other important signs

She may arch her back and feet, have uncontrolled twitches in her limbs, during and after orgasm, and have uncontrolled facial expressions which is often called ‘orgasm face’. Check her cheeks and neck to see if they are flushed.

Of particular importance is what she does immediately after sex: Does she leap right out of bed and get on with her day? Or does she go to the bathroom and lock the door? The chemical effect of an orgasm on the body brings a dazed look to the eyes and she may just want to laze for a few minutes to enjoy it. If she is missing this post-coital bliss, be suspicious.

During orgasm, her nipples will also harden. Research has estimated that there is a 95% chance that if her nipples aren’t hard, she didn’t orgasm. Her clitoris gets very sensitive right after orgasm, so if she doesn’t slow down or stop completely after her orgasm, she is probably a faker.

Making coherent sentences far too loudly is also a clue to her dishonesty; If she chooses that moment to tell you about the ‘Aso Ebi’ the women group in church would be wearing for Mama Iyabo’s wedding anniversary, sit up and know that she has taken you.

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