12. Go On Dating Sites
Before you xnay this idea and think it’s completely absurd, think about it for a second. What faster way to move on then to have a rebound? When speaking about a rebound in these terms, it doesn’t have to mean having a fling or sleeping around or even finding a lifelong partner, a rebound can just mean someone that may be able to fill the void of the loneliness someone is feeling from a heartbreak. Dating sites can help with getting back self-esteem that was lost, giving someone hope that love can be found again and can even be good practice in teaching someone how to date again whose been out of the loop for a while. Then when someone of real potential comes along, it can help someone learn from their past relationship mistakes.
11. Read Breakup Material
Sometimes when someone is going through something like this, it helps to know that other people are either going through the same thing or have in the past. This can be done by reading books or articles on the subject of breakups, but the best way is reading autobiographies of celebrities like Shania Twain, who openly talked about the deterioration and end of her marriage because of infidelity. Shania even had a sit down interview on Oprah and discussed the struggle she was going through during this time, but eventually remarried again to Frédéric Thiébaud. Just recently, Gwen Stefani spoke publicly about the demise of her marriage to Gavin Rossdale and since has found love again. She is dating Blake Shelton, who was also recently divorced this year. Seeing someone else (especially a celebrity) triumphant past this and come out stronger, should all give us hope.
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