8. Being Too Clingy
At the beginning of a new romance, we usually spend all our time together and enthralled in the puppy love vibe. That is all fine and dandy, but when it continues into overkill, this is where you are messing up. Constant phone calls and texting when you are apart is annoying; nobody wants their phone emitting smoke because of your obsession with them. Think about when you first got together, you had a whole life full of things that make you, you. The way you spent your time and the activities and accomplishments you were doing is probably a huge reason why they were attracted to you in the first place. Don’t throw all of your independence out the window just because you are with someone new. It’s important to have a life outside of your relationship, so that *gasp* if you do find yourself single again, you have a lot to fall back on. Nobody likes a clinger, so break free of that obsessive behavior and focus on other things when you find yourself fixating.
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