6. Revealing Too Much Too Soon
When you are in a relationship, it is a natural feeling to want to share everything with your partner. It goes to say that you feel comfortable opening up and trust them enough with your darkest secrets. However, revealing intense facts about your life when you first begin dating can come across as heavy and depending on what it is, intimidating. When you spend a lot of time together, you naturally get to know each other in a deeper way. If after an allotted time, when you both have grown to like each other a lot, it doesn’t seem so crazy to share a few things you don’t normally do. The better your partner has come to know you, the more open they are to understanding or overlooking those skeletons in your closet because *gasp* they’ve grown to love you.
Human cognition is to judge and be judged in return, unconsciously and quickly whether you realize it or not. Reveal what you wish when you feel secure in the relationship and about your partner. You never know exactly how things will end, and if it doesn’t work out that person can blab about you. Everyone has a past but it is up to you to reveal what you are comfortable with at your own pace.
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