4. Don’t Be So Available
There is a saying, “absence makes the heart grow fonder” that holds a magnitude of truth. Don’t you appreciate and love things a little bit more once you’ve been deprived of them for a bit? There is something within the human mind that adores a little mystery, something that helps keeps us intrigued when we don’t know exactly if we have the person or not. Keeping your partner guessing and wondering about you isn’t a mean move, it is actually beneficial to growing the passion in your relationship. The mind is everything and sadly but truthfully, people play games whether you like it or not. Try not always picking your phone up after the first ring, or updating them on your every move throughout the day. Take a spontaneous trip alone or with friends, continue a life of your own without your partner to a certain extent.
Don’t get us wrong, vanishing for weeks at a time with no contact is not the route to go. That will probably backfire and possibly end up in a police search. Try to keep some mystery alive in little ways, but if you just can’t resist, we understand- you’re in love!
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