3. Being Too Jealous/Possessive
Don’t be that new, hot and psychotic lover, just don’t. Acting totally crazed over your new partner will make you look bad, make your lover freaked and cause damage control on the way. Jealous behavior stems from low self esteem and insecurity and you’re better than that. Everyone is fearful of losing someone of value to them and they try to hold on to that in any means possible. Imagine if someone was searching through your phone or questioning your every move, would you really like that long term? Sure, we are animalistic at times and it is a good thing to claim your territory in a classy way, but know your limits. Every couple likes to see their partner be protective of them and show that they care.
When situations turn violent, chaotic or down right stressful and dramatic, that’s when you know it’s gone too far. Find ways to help yourself or your partner through a better lifestyle brought on with therapy, working out, talking to friends or some type of makeover to better your self esteem.
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