14. He’s Using You
I hate to break it to you, but if you feel like a guy is using you, chances are he is. It is sad to say, but people (men in particular) have been known to “say the right thing” if it means getting in bed. The problem with this kind of guy is that they usually can’t walk the walk, even if they love to talk the talk. A lot of guys see intercourse as some sort of prize, and for some reason, if it is given to them too early, they don’t appreciate it as much. Although not all men are the same, women should learn to trust their gut. If you have a feeling that he just wants to do it, you are probably right. Being used, especially in this realm, has got to be one of the worst feelings ever and unfortunately it happens to almost every girl at least once. Learn from not only your mistakes but the mistakes your friends have made.
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