2. Live in the moment.
Men love to enjoy the here and now. There will come a time, usually after several months of dating someone special, when most guys will start to evaluate their feelings and think about a possible future together.
Most women would prefer them to hurry up and make up their mind. After all, we want some assurance that the time we’re spending with a new guy is worth our while. From the first date, we’re usually wondering, “Does this guy have long-term potential?” And after a few weeks we’re most likely thinking, “Where is this going? Is he planning on getting serious or is he just having fun? Because if we’re not on the same page I need to move on.”
It’s at this point when many women make one of the biggest dating mistakes: asking him what he’s thinking or pressuring him to define the relationship.
When a guy is in the beginning stages of dating you (the first three months, minimum), he’s living in the moment. Even if he hasn’t considered whether he’s in love with you, he knows he loves your company. My advice at this point is to go with it. Try to think like a man and just enjoy the present.
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