4. Act rationally, not emotionally.
Often, the things we have the urge to do or say in a moment of emotional weakness are NOT what we would choose to do or say when we’ve had some time to process our thoughts and feelings. We serve up a big dose of drama when we react emotionally to situations instead of taking a 5 minute “time out” to think things through and act rationally.
It takes practice, but if you learn to master the skill of putting your heart (emotions) on pause and checking in with your head (your intellect), you will spare yourself a lot of the heartache that you’ve been experiencing by repeating the same simple mistakes.
“But wait a minute,” you may be thinking. “These tips are all well and good, but why should we have to do all the work? Why can’t men meet us halfway and learn to accept our nature as emotional women? They want a relationship too … why can’t they make some of the effort?”
Because most men won’t. They’re simply not thinking about everything and analyzing everything like women are. (As I mentioned in Tip #2, they’re too busy living in the moment!)
As frustrating as it may be, you can’t control the way men think and behave. But you DO have control over your own actions.
So don’t despair! You don’t have to play games, turn off your feelings or act like a robot to “lure” a man. When you make a commitment to date without drama, you’re allowed to feel and honor all of your emotions just as you normally would, you’ll just learn not to let yourself or your actions be controlled by them.
You’ll make decisions and take action from a place of confidence, rather than weakness or desperation. You won’t spend another night alone, crying or waiting by the phone. The feelings of neediness will disappear. You will get out of your own way and allow yourself to have a successful relationship.
Source: Yourtango
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