4. Is it worth it?
As I mentioned, most of the time, we call something a crush because there’s some kind of obstacle between you and the other person.
You’re admiring them from afar for a reason — it might be an emotional reason or a societal reason.
You need to ask yourself — if those obstacles were removed, would it be worth telling this other person how you feel about them? Or even asking them out?
If you’re already in a relationship, it would mean breaking up with your current partner first, because you don’t want to be the jerk who hits on people when you’re already with someone. If the other person is a co-worker, it might mean making your work environment awkward or, at the worst, potentially losing your job.
If the other person is much younger or cooler than you, they might laugh in your face.
When it comes to a crush, you need to ask yourself WHY you’re into them and WHAT the consequences will be if you finally decide to go for it.
Because those consequences will really help you decide if taking your desires out of the realm of fantasy are worth it.
By Elizabeth Ayers-Callahan, yourtango.com
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