Every example above perfectly depicts relationships that started with love as their foundation but the love was not enough to see them through. The human nature is built to be self serving, its not that we do not have the capacity to be selfless but often times where we have been, things we have seen and heard and those we allow to affect us end up molding us to be who we are.
Love is not enough. Love in the actual sense of the word should be enough to make a relationship last for a life time but we are human. And we are influenced by other factors like environmental and psychological background; a child that grew up watching one of his or her parent emotionally or physically abusing the other, if not taking through proper process of recovery will find it difficult to maintain a stable adult relationship. A person like this might find it easy to fall in love, might even be a very sweet loveable person but dues to his or her upbringing he or she might find it difficult to stay in a relationship unless such a person lucky enough to find a person that is selfless and understanding to make he or she find healing.
Now, from the above analogy its obvious that finding love is not the problem, being in love is not the problem but staying in the relationship.( it means you can be in love and watch the relationship fall apart).
Factors That Limits Love
Love according to the pure definition from all the holy books and from all the renowned writers is a force that is strong enough to hold two people together for a life time despite all odds despite all errs.
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