Love Should Make You Better
A healthy love should make you two better and happier than before when both of you are single. You will naturally want to improve yourself, and the reason is obvious, because you love her. Your woman should make you better as an individual. If the love between you and her is not happy and this keeps for a long time, perhaps you need to rethink carefully about your love.
However, first and foremost, we have to love ourselves before we love others. Love is not something that need to compromise our passions and dreams. We need to conserve resources in order to share the resources with others. If you don’t love yourself, how could you love others? Simple question. Therefore, please not forgetting (or compromising) who you are when you are in love. You still have your dream life, your goals, your mission in life, your business, etc. Think carefully, is love all you need?
When your world is all of her, you tend to be overly nice to her, and your emotions are very sensitive to her every action. In other words, you tend to turn into a wuss when you lost yourself. That’s why people told you if you want to be successful with women you have to be yourself.The insecurities, neediness and co-dependence will completely kill your attraction to her and there’s almost no way to win her back if the attraction is gone. Remember, love should make you better, love yourself before you love others.
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