The life you want: To accomplish great things in life, you have to get out of your own way. The biggest obstacle in life is that we get in our own way. It is easy to look at friends, family, or celebrities and judge the choices they make; it is easy because you look from the outside in. You don’t have the same attachment or point of view as them either. What works for them doesn’t have to work for you, and yet you measure your worth to what you see around you. It is high time that you make an inventory of your life, to start. If you would give your life a mark — with 10 as the highest and 1 the lowest — what would you give it?
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Next question: what do you need to create the 10 mark? With other words “what do you want out of life?”
This may look like a simple question, but the answer is often not that straightforward. You use excuses like “I don’t have the money”, “The kids are still small”, “It is not the right time yet”, “I could never do that”. “I don’t have the skills to go after that”, and so on and so forth.
And in the meantime, you complain that your life is not the way you hoped it would be. So, stop procrastinating and get out of your own way.
Here are the steps on how to create the life you want:
1. Make a list of what you want.
Cover the mental, physical, emotional and spiritual aspects of your life. Now that you know what you want, you have a direction in life. It is like have a road map to your dream destination; you now know which direction you need to take.
2. Assess the choices you make right now.
Are they working for you? Check if the choices you’re making right now are in congruence with what you want in life.
In other words, do you follow your roadmap or are you just cursing along without paying attention where you are going?
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