Ways to get over that guy – If you love someone, set him free, the saying goes. Yeah, right! Who wants to do that?! When you love someone, the last thing you want to do is set him or her free … you want to cling to him like the last life jacket on the Titanic.
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Sometimes this works out, if the person doesn’t mind, or even adores, your clinging. Other times, if the person doesn’t feel the same as you, you just end up causing yourself a huge amount of heartache. Yes,causing YOURSELF heartache. Sure, people give mixed signals. But if he’s telling you he loves you one day and disappearing for three weeks the next, you can be sure you two aren’t on the same page, no matter how he might feel “deep down.” I think we’ve all been there at least once. I know I have. It was painful, but at the end of the day, it was liberating to finally “let go” of someone who just didn’t seem to be on the same relationship page.
There are myriad books dedicated to keeping a man interested, getting him to commit, and keeping your marriage spicy. But what about just letting go? That’s really what many of us need to learn how to do. And it’s probably one of most difficult things in the world. But also one of the most necessary. Here are 10 ways to do it — beyond distracting yourself with hobbies and pets and volunteer work.
Be realistic. Let go of the idea that if only you can get this man to commit to you, life will suddenly be all roses, champagne, and sex-fueled weekends in the Maldives. The truth is that rejection will happen throughout your life. Being married just brings with it another set of problems. As Samara O’Shea writes in Love Me … Not: How to Survive and Thrive in the Face of Unrequited Love: “Once you’re in a committed relationship, the rejection associated with dating — such as guys not calling — might be in the rear-view mirror, but new and exciting types of rejection lie ahead. There’s small rejection (you’ll snub each other’s choice of curtains) and rejection that hurts more (like turning down each other’s sexual advances).” In other words, bagging your man isn’t going to make you immune to hurt for the rest of your life.
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