LADIES: 5 Ways to avoid soul-sucking relationships

Ways to avoid soul-sucking relationships – Don’t be fooled. We’ve all had a guy (or a few) who we really thought was the one. Maybe it was the way you met or that in the right light he kinda looked like Chris Pine, but some small detail about the relationship ignited this idea that you were soulmates. And you believed it — until that illusion was shattered by cold, harsh reality.

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Then you were left alone, asking yourself how the eff you didn’t see it. How the hell you were so blind to believe in something that was clearly bullshit? 

And more importantly, how could you ever trust your judgment again?

Don’t worry, you’re not alone. I’m 99% sure that everyone has been there. We’ve all been duped by boys.

In fact, being played for a food by a man is probably just a natural part of womanhood. 

Getting caught up in a bad relationship is an acceptable mistake to make once or twice. But if it becomes a pattern, that means there is something you’re not getting.

These relationships are lessons, and if you don’t learn anything, then you have to keep going back to class. That’s just how it works. 

Smart, confident women understand this, and know how to see a relationship for what it is.They notice the red flags and they take notes.

They learn from their mistakes. They move on. 

Here are 5 things that these women do to keep from wasting time in a dead-end relationship, and get the, closer to what they really want:

1. They know their priorities, and they don’t compromise on them. 

Strong woman have figured out the things that are really important to them in a relationship, and they don’t settle for anything else. Now, these aren’t ridiculous or superficial things (kindly take “must be 6 foot 3” off your list), but real values that are necessary for you to live a meaningful life together.

Example: family values. If having a big huge family with a whole mess of kids is high on your list, than don’t waste time on a guy who just had a vasectomy. Just sayin’.