You’re not the one turning him off — that is, unless you’re putting pressure on him by mocking his dysfunction, laughing at him, acting disappointed, or otherwise being unsupportive and unsympathetic toward your man. I know you would never say, “OMG, WHAT HAPPENED?!?” or “I ALWAYS KNEW YOU WERE GAY!” or “YOU’RE NOT A REAL MAN!” or “UGH! NEVER MIND, GAME OVER!” or even “SIGHHHH.” You’re not that kind of woman.

Be kind. Be chill. Consider how this must feel for him.