Jay, Age 41
I was recently with a young lady I’d been dealing with off and on for some time. We got caught up in the moment and didn’t use any protection. I wasn’t too concerned about disease, even though I should have been. She did ask me about my recent partners and sexual behavior. After we had sex, I became uncomfortable because I started thinking about STDs and pregnancy. I have been caught out there on more than one occasion in recent years. I think both men and women should insist that condoms be used. I know I will from now on.
Dr. Wyatt suggests: Before either partner becomes aroused, it’s important to ask, “What kinds of protection do we need to use to prevent STDs, pregnancy and HIV?” In the heat of the moment, people forget that they may be exposing themselves to a lifetime of repercussions. Take control of your sex life and its consequences. If you don’t have condoms now, plan to meet up later–prepared.
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