She Talks Like You
There’s a scene in Broadcast News in which William Hurt tells Holly Hunter that listening to her talk in his earpiece while he was on the air was “like great sex!” See if you get a similar buzz from your potential bedmate.“The first thing to look for is mirroring of verbal behavior and pace,” explains Michael Cunningham, Ph.D., a professor of social psychology at the University of Louisville. “That is, if her pace and her nonverbal behavior match yours, her sexual behavior, which is also nonverbal, will also likely match. If one person seems really slow moving and the other person seems fidgety, they’re going to have different sexual paces.“If somebody says something and the other person goes on to another subject,” he says, “they’re not tuning in very well. They probably won’t tune in during sex, either.”
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