Classic Mistake #1: I can change him.
Although people do hear that old adage, “People don’t change,” no one really takes it seriously until he or she is faced with a person who needs to change. It’s at that point you go into denial. “Oh, he just needs someone who understands him,” “If I do everything for him, he’ll feel like he wants to reciprocate,” etc. Chances are, that is never, ever going to happen. Not that people don’t change — they do. But YOU can’t make them. A good rule of thumb is this: If you knew that this man would be EXACTLY the same for the next 50 years, would you still want to marry/date him? If the answer is “hell no,” then abort mission if you aren’t married yet. And if you are already married, carefully consider what your next step is and whether it should be divorce.
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