Classic Mistake #4: Giving points for being “honest.”
If a man is telling you all about his troubles, his rocky romantic history, his financial problems, or his drug addictions, women tend to think: “Oh, he’s being so honest with me, that must mean he doesn’t plan on doing any of this stuff with me.” Women find it impossible to believe a man would advertise his future bad behavior. But men often give you a warning for a good reason — they are testing you to see if you will stick around after hearing about their chronic unemployment, cheating history, or addictions. If you do, then they consider that you’ve had fair warning.
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