Mistake #2: Complimenting her too much
“You look great!” “I love that dress on you!” “Wow, that’s so neat!” “You’re such a kind soul!” On an average date, the average woman will get forty to fifty compliments, from just one man.
That’s a TON of attention! For example, if you shrunk your normal first date down to just one hour, and included the time you two spend eating, every other sentence out of your mouth would be, “Wow, you’re so incredibly amazing!” (And this has never been the way women fall in love.) With all that flattery, how are you supposed to get to know her?
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How is she supposed to get to know you? You need to cut through the flattery, and get down to “business” – finding out what she’s really like, as a person. And then, once you find out something she doesn’t tell EVERY guy she dates, your well-timed, appropriate, specific compliment will make her heart flutter a little faster. She’ll love you for it. Until then, try to hold back on the sucking up. It makes you come across as a much weaker man.
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