#2 Make a connection. Find a way to create a connection with her. When you ask her about herself, did you find something similar about both of you? If she says she likes to paint, pretend like you’re impressed and tell her that you’ve always wanted to paint but the last time you tried meddling with colors, all you did was tip a palette of paints on your neighbor’s clothes!
Or if she says she works at a particular organization, say something like, “Aah, I’ve heard so much about that place. I hear the cafeteria has the best cappuccino!” Make anything up as long it sounds funny or makes her feel proud. Even if it’s wrong, it’ll lead to another fun conversation.
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