10 Sure signs the guy you are dating is definitely not the right man for you..

Signs the guy you are dating is definitely not the right man - Trust us on this one. We all have our dating doubts, but if you are experiencing any of the following issues, you could be investing time in the wrong person. More.. 24 Nigerian artistes whose career have come to a standstill 10 super famous celebs that are poorer than you – This will shock you! (With Pictures) I found an iPhone on the ground and what I found in its photo gallery terrified me.. 20 of the most convincing photos of ghosts ever taken (See Photos) 1. You don't feel that you can be yourself. Your friends tell you you've changed. You are always watching what you say or how you act, because your partner tends to get on your case or has been critical of you in the past. You just never feel completely relaxed around him, even after dating for a good amount of months. If you can't be who you truly are with your significant other, it's time to think hard about what you are doing in a situation like this... and why. No one is worth this much sacrifice. Navigate using arrows below 2. You're unhappy. While it's true that our partners aren't responsible for our happiness, they should certainly make our days a little brighter! Someone who is dating the right person consistently enjoys the relationship and feels a general sense of happiness (arguments aside!). If you find yourself unhappy most of the time— and especially when you are with them—then this may be a sign that this isn't the best person for you. SEE ALSO: 8 differences between being 'in love' and 'in lust' - See this now! 3. They exhaust you. Instead of feeling energized after hanging out with your partner, you feel emotionally drained most of the time. They seem to always have something to complain about, or just have a negative outlook on life. Either way, the person you choose to spend your life with should really lift you up rather than drag you down. And it shouldn't feel like "work" most of the time. 4. The friend factor. If you are with someone and don't really want to introduce them to your friends, this is not a good sign (and you should ask yourself why!). If you are with someone and they never bring you around their friends, it's another sign. SEE ALSO: 10 things men really want to see their women do more in bed.. If your most trusted friends are expressing concern about your relationship, take heart. These people may be able to see things more objectively than you, so it's important to be open and hear what they have to say. 5. You never envision the future together. After a certain amount of time together, it is normal to start thinking about what the future might be like as a couple. If you have been with your partner for a while and just don't see how it would ever work down the line, it might be a good idea to evaluate why you are with this person and what you are really looking for. SEE ALSO: Ladies, 13 Qualities that will make you man love you forever!

6. You are like night and day. He loves to go out every night and sleep late. You like to just be home and get an early start. He wants to be together seven nights a week, while you love time with your girlfriends. Compatibility is an essential ingredient for a happy and peaceful union, and if you and your partner have many fundamental differences, it may make things that much harder. 7. You are not excited to see or hear from them. She calls you... and you send it to voicemail. Or sometimes you actually avoid him. You realize that you feel completely ambivalent when you are around him. Many of us go through the motions and are so afraid to be alone that we stay in situations that aren't fulfilling. Dating should be fun, exciting and heartwarming, not another chore. It's not always going to be sunshine and roses, but you should feel happy to see them most of the time. 8. You don't feel good about yourself. In addition to feeling happy, a person in a good relationship usually has a positive self esteem. Sure, they will have some doubts and insecurities (who doesn't?), but the time they spend with their partner will make them feel better about themselves, not worse. SEE ALSO: 10 romantic things to do after making love - This will make your lover love you more! In contrast, if your partner exacerbates your self doubts and undermines your confidence, it's time to stand up for yourself... and say see ya later! 9. The cons of staying together outweigh the pros. A cost-benefit analysis can actually be helpful in situations other than at the office. Sit down for a few minutes and write down the advantages of staying with your partner. Then list the disadvantages. SEE ALSO: Ladies, 10 things your man should never make you do, no matter how much you love him - Be wise! When you compare the lists, you will either find that the benefits outweigh any disadvantages, or that reasons to break up are more compelling than the ones to stay together. 10. Your instinct are whispering, "Get Out". As a general rule, the voices inside us are there for a reason, and they should be listened to. Don't ignore the subtle red lights your subconscious is warning you about. Ultimately, our hearts know what is right for us. Give your inner voice free reign, and let it direct you to the conclusions that are best for you. Find someone who treats you like you need to be treated and makes you happy. Someone who makes you feel good about yourself and the people you trust encourage you to be with. - YourTango CLICK HERE to join our BBM Channel for faster updates TOP POSTS YESTERDAY 5 little-known facts about your period 10 Nigerian celebrity marriages that will never get a divorce (With Pics) 10 famous men who’ve slept with over 1,000 partners.. #1 has slept with over 35,000 (+Photos) Jim Iyke finally reveals his baby mama’s face – See how beautiful she looks (+Photos) How to grow sideburns very fast – Steps you need to take! (With Pictures) Top 25 sexiest female pornstars in the adult entertainment today! (With Pictures) 12 rich celebs who don’t help their poor siblings (With Pictures) 12 Nollywood actors we would love to see on our TV screens again (With Pictures) 6 times Nigerian celebrities fell down while on stage (+Video) Ladies! 10 things your man should never make you do, no matter how much you love him- Be wise!! 10 romantic things to do after making love – this will make your lover love you more! Here are 7 things you should never tolerate in a long distance relationship

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