15 Signs he's just keeping you as a side chick

Signs he's just keeping you as a side chick - Unfortunately, many of us have had the sinking feeling that we weren’t the only woman our guy was dating. We may have been overreacting, but our gut instincts are often correct. More..

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8. You don’t know where he lives. If you have been dating for a while, you should know where he lives. You may not have been inside, but you should have the option to visit. A man who keeps his residence a secret, is hiding who lives inside of it. 9. Unavailable on holidays. He’s spending the holidays with his family and you’re never invited or he always has to work. A guy that is serious about you, he will want to see you on holidays. If he’s always “busy” on holidays, you share that man. 10. Never talks about the future. He doesn’t ask about your life plans and shows no interest in getting to know you as a person. His focus is on the here and now and he doesn’t see the need in sharing his future plans because you likely won’t be around for long. ALSO: Ladies, these are the 10 common lies men like telling you - Its time you stop falling for them! 11. Doesn’t want you to mention him and won’t acknowledge you on social media. This is a huge red flag. Some people don’t like posting pictures of the people they date, but you should be able communicate with him. You should be able to mention him and he should respond to you on social media. 12. He doesn’t like when you take pictures of him. You don’t need pictures of your “bae” because he’s not yours. He doesn’t want to risk you posting those pictures on social media or the pictures getting back to his main chick. He definitely doesn’t want any pictures of you together. 13. You don’t know his real name. I have no idea how women date (and sleep with) men and don’t know their real name. If you’re on a date with @DudeFromDaBlock and something bad happens, what will you tell the police? You’re going to look real stupid telling the police his @ name. You should know the full (first and last) name and birth date of everyone you go out with. SEE ALSO: Ladies, 10 things men really want from you in bed - See this now! 14. He won’t spend the night. If your guy lives with a woman, he won’t be able to stay over or he will have to leave really early. The woman he lives with expects him to come home at night and if he doesn’t, it will cause a lot of problems which he doesn’t want. 15. Your relationship is purely physical. He only calls when he wants to sleep together. All of his compliments and attention are focused on your physical appearance. He’s only interested in “what dat mouf do” and not in getting to know you as a person. - Real Web MD CLICK HERE to join our BBM Channel for faster updates TOP POSTS YESTERDAY Here's what porn does to your brain, but you will never know! The 10 most notorious frenemies in Hollywood (With Pictures) Busted!! Pastor caught pants down with church sister making love on the floor (+Pic) Photos: Venus williams goes fully naked and looks like a goddess 20 dirty questions to ask any girl and make her wet... Top 15 shocking celebs nude photos that got leaked (with Pictures) Watch: Leaked video of naija's biggest runs girl 'Victoria' undressing for a white man Nigeria's most hairy woman in relationship with Enugu big boy (+Photos) Private pics of Abuja's biggest sugar mummy leaked by her boyfriend goes viral (See Photo) The 12 hottest Kim Kardashian's booty shots ever! (+Photos) 20 Sure ways to make any girl fall in love with you...