- Redirect her thinking when she starts to panic.
This isn’t to say you should ignore her, but you should remind her that worrying may be taking over. Ask questions that remind her of what’s an actual reality or an imagined fear.
For example, if she has to see a doctor about a lump, address her fears that it could be an actual medical issue, but remind her that it could also be completely benign; that right now, nothing has happened, so don’t create a problem that isn’t there yet.
Redirect her by focusing on what she’s done to help herself (making the doctor’s appointment and taking care of her body), and try to get her to do something she loves or enjoys to distract from the issue. SEE ALSO: 7 Sure ways to get what you want from any woman in bed..
Remind her that things will be OK. And if not, she will handle them and it will be fine. That the worst-case scenario has NOT happened as of right now.
Redirect her by asking how you can help, reminding her of what she’s doing positively. Offer to listen and after listening, distract her with a new activity or topic.
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