11. He’s Overly Defensive
“Why are you asking all these questions?” “Why do you care where I was?” “I was watching the game at Mark’s. If you don’t believe me, call him!” If these defenses sound familiar, your significant other could be up to no good. “When a man becomes overly defensive in response to questions about his whereabouts or behavior, it’s a huge sign that something is not right, because otherwise, he’d laugh it off!” warns Dr. Oikle. Meanwhile, if out of nowhere your partner accuses you of cheating, it may be because he’s been unfaithful. “Once a man sees how easy it is for him to become involved in an outside relationship, he begins to view his partner under the same moral microscope. Accusing you of infidelity is a way to deflect his own guilt and poor behavior,” explains Manette.
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One Final Caveat…
Before you start following your significant other during his lunch break or hire a divorce lawyer, please take heed: If you’ve observed any of these signs, it doesn’t necessarily mean you’ve got a Tiger Woods on your hands. According to the experts, these behaviors only signal infidelity if they’re a departure from the norm. If your sex life has never been booming or if he’s always been weird about his computer, he’s probably not cheating. But if your once-regular sex life has dramatically dwindled and the guy who used to live in sneakers is suddenly sporting Gucci loafers and designer suits, there might be something else going on. “If things are good at home, you’re having fun together, having regular sex, then things are probably fine. But if you are having none of the above, then there might be a problem,” says DeLorenzo. Just remember, while one of these signs does not a cheater make, if you’ve witnessed a few, it’s time to have a talk. Even if he’s not having an affair, addressing issues in your relationship early on can prevent future infidelity, advises Manette.
–Kristi Koch
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