2. The Trust Is Likely Damaged Forever
When you think about your ex, you think about how much you want them back and how much you miss them. Very likely, you don’t think about how much you trust them, right? You certainly trust them. After all, this is the person who loved you, took care of you, treated you right, broke your heart…yeah. Don’t forget about that. This is one of those things that you probably won’t foresee and you really can’t predict. No matter how many sleepless hours you spend at night thinking and furiously dreaming about what it’d be like to get back together, the trust issues tend to only crop up once you’re actually back in your ex’s loving embrace.
Think about it: this man or woman destroyed your heart, blasting it to smithereens. Now that they’ve done it once, what’s stopping them from doing it again? Absolutely nothing. You now have to wake up each day and attempt to forge a normal, happy, healthy, functioning relationship knowing that at any time, your ex could put you back in the same hellish position that they had before. Sure, it won’t hurt as much the second time, but do you really want to wait around and find out personally?
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