5. They’re Using You
Sexuality is not a power play. If you know that somebody is using you for sex, ask yourself why you are putting yourself in that position. It is one thing if all you are looking for is a casual physical relationship. Yet for many individuals, they find themselves being used for sex by people that they care about. When they find out that the sex was meaningless for the other person, it can be heartbreaking. Sexuality is something that should be an equal gift for both of you, and feeling like you are being used is very similar to feeling like you are not being respected. Make sure you realize that if you want a relationship that is more than just the physical, you must be deserving of that.
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