12. They abuse authority.
Many male addicts take great pride in being the head of the family and appeal to God to assert, “I’m the leader! I get to do whatever I want!” Contrary to their declaration, God didn’t give husbands and fathers any personal rights with their position of leadership. Instead of rights, God assigns men responsibilities: to love their wife and children as themselves.
The selfishness of male addicts can become so extreme that claiming to be the head of the wife and children would be laughable, if it weren’t for the intense damage they heap upon their family. They often expect their family to take care of all home duties such as paying bills, yard work, along with house and car maintenance. Their only contribution is to gripe loud and long.
It’s not unusual to find addicts neglecting planned family times such as special meals, school functions, sports events, holidays, birthdays, and anniversaries. Secretly pleasuring themselves is always their priority. When questioned, they fall back on their assumed authority: “You’re not submissive,” “You don’t have a quiet spirit,” “You just want to be the boss.”
In the end, one thing is clear: Everyone gets hurt.
Once self-gratification becomes addictive, men and women have a hard time overcoming their deviant cravings. Sexual addicts become unable to love anyone emotionally or sexually. They lose the ability to nurture their children. The children grow up starved for love and acceptance, and carry the scars throughout their lives. Sexual addicts pay a huge personal price for their stolen moments of pleasure.
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