3. You Do Not “Like” Your Partner
It is one thing to love your partner, it is another to like them. Do you like their interests? Are they your best friend beyond just the fact that you spend the most time with them? You are going to spend the rest of your life with this partner, so make sure at least some of your interests match. Sometimes couples get together out of convenience or because you fall for someone quicker than you ever expected. In those moments it is always important to be evaluating what your partner values and likes. If you hate football but it is his favorite thing ever? Enjoy dealing with that for the next 60 years!
2. You Fail To Communicate
Everyone has a different communication style. You need to hope that your partner’s meshes with yours. If you find yourself constantly bickering with each other, you need to ask yourself if this is normal. Everyone has a different way they express love, and there is no value in staying in a relationship where you do not feel appreciated. It is even more difficult when you try to communicate issues, but they fall on deaf ears. A lack of communication can be displayed as a lack of effort in the relationship. Once both those elements manifest, your relationship may be hard to save.
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