4. He obsessively guards his stuff.
At the end of one of the best 12-hour dates I’ve ever had, I was dropping this guy I’d been seeing for about a week off at his apartment and hinting that I very much would like to engage in some active snuggling when, suddenly, he started making tons of excuses about how gross his apartment was and how embarrassed he’d be for me to see it.
We’d already had a heavy makeout session in his pretty filthy car a couple nights before, so this seemed like a strange excuse… until I saw him out with a beautiful girl he awkwardly introduced as his live-in girlfriend a couple nights later at a neighborhood bar. Lesson f*cking learned.
I’m not saying you should have free rights to go through all his stuff, but if he seems adamant about steering you clear of his personal space or oddly possessive of his phone, you should pay attention.
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