7 mistakes you make with him that kill his attraction to you

4. You’re TOO independent. 

I was raised to be capable. It took me awhile to learn that “capable” doesn’t mean “don’t accept anyone’s ideas” or “you always know better” or “treat that man like he’s hired help while he hangs those shelves.”

Independence is awesome, but keep in mind that bossy is not. As a recovering control freak, I can vouch that expecting everything to be just-so will kill a man’s attraction to you faster than you can say “put that over there.”